This nigga can't even get his janky phone together and he's talking about multiple wives. Son?!?
Maannnnnn....then he sounds like he was high on something. So you have a raggedy phone, and a drug problem.... but you want multiple women to share your dusty ass?! Nah! LMAO
Look guys. I feel that bro. I also have a team of Girlfriends and yes, I tell them to work hard and be generous. On the beginning they were depended on me financially, but now, as we all grow together, I told them to bring stuff to the table. So I understand that bro.
Why does always has to be WE man the one who provides the paper?
The modern women want same rights and SAME CASH, well then, let them EARN that paper bros.
And now stop bashing that caller and move on.
a blk man got to have a half human (whyt woman) half animal in his bed and he feel like he made it.
That first caller is one of those dusty brothers who wants to raw dog a bunch of random low income chicks without paying any societal or economic consequences.
Pushing polygamy when the average black man can barely take care of one wife is insane. We already have that situation now with a bunch of broke brothers dropping seed and then walking away.
Most of my friends are married and that economic base is priority number one. That is the only way to protect the wife and children. The richest and most powerful men in the world have stable family situations.
And white boys invented the whole industry of getting women drugged up for sex. Isn't that the whole point of the bar industry? Has anyone ever been to a white run party where there was NO alcohol served? Alcohol is a narcotic. If it weren't for alcohol and weed most of these white boys would be home alone after last call.
I don't drink at all and attract women of all races. Even married white women drop hints that they would ride the black thunder. So getting women has never been a problem from blacks. Other races have issues with our ability to attract.
Yeah, I agree that white people are obsessed with us. I never bring up race around white people but they can't wait to make some comment about race. I usually set my clock by how quickly a white man will bring up something racial, without prompting.
That was a good podcast. And down with attention whoring black trolls.
LMAO!!! No, you didn't!!! "ride the black thunder"!! LOL!!! Hors, you crazy!!!
@BoomerGal :-D I am just saying. White boys are incredibly dull. why do you think they stay with their foot on our necks? Let the black man stand tall and see what happens!
According the US Department of Labor, the average income for black males is about $30K. $30K. $30K. You can barely survive as a bachelor on $30K.
With numbers like that people are actually bringing up the concept of polywhatever as a viable economic model for the black community? That is straight comedy. Get that average up to about 200K otherwise people should laugh in your face.
Tariq is against polygamy for the wrong reasons. Polygyny (NOT POLYGAMY) is what the caller is talking about. When you say polygamy that includes polyandry which is a woman having 2 husbands. That is chaos. Obviously the caller is talking about an educated, enlightened and financially stable brother having the right way what most brothers have THE WRONG WAY anyway. When you do polygyny with the right intentions you will do nothing but build a strong foundation of family leadership within the community. You sound REAL COONISH when all you can do is throw shade on something that has its roots in Africa. This country has indoctrinated us with the attitude that monogamy is right and polygyny is wrong. Yet government officials and tons of wealthy white supremacists enjoy having a wife and tons of women on the side. Obviously if the government has legalized gay marriage, there is a hidden agenda behind it that in no way empowers the black community. It's common sense that a man should only take care of what or who he can afford. That's simply one of the obstacles, or challenges...not a reason that it will not work. You have neighborhoods full of single mothers who are looking for male leadership, guidance and protection. Polygyny can simply be a way to bring about positive change.
Now I am sure that Peanut would never allow Tariq to marry a second or third wife, but if she was down, Tariq would jump at the opportunity, as he should! It's not simply about having another piece of ass to fuck. It's about the fact that you and your wives are committed to building and growing your family into a strong foundation of family leadership within the community. There are obviously challenges that come with it, but Muslims have been doing this for centuries. They have the Prophet Muhammad as a positive example of how it should be done. And in the Quran it states that 4 is the maximum. Before Islam, the wealthy in that area would have hundreds of wives or concubines. Bottom line is, don't knock it as if it's impossible to do. It's a tool of how our community can gain the empowerment that we need and deserve.
I don't know why Tariq automatically assumed the bottom of the barrel of black guys. Broke, dusty, negroes probably wouldn't find it appealing to begin with due to economic reasons.
The caller about polygamy is actually a good idea after black males get some education its somethin that could actually bring benefits. In the end of the day monogamy is created by whitey to keep you in debt.
Tariq suports pimpin but got all defensive with the brother idea that was weird.
At some point black people gotta create their own lanes NOTHING white people creates include us we arent part of the hustle.
I find it hilarious that Black men want to talk about polygamy, but fail to consider the sexual health risks associated with sleeping around with multiple women...... some dudes just want legal permission to be nasty whores. That's the bottom line. They're like public transportation... filthy, pissed on, and broken down - everyone has sat and rode on them, but then they want to be treated like a Rolls Royce or an Aston Martin....NEGATIVE.
How is sleeping with your wives the same thing as sleeping around with nasty whores?
You know guys could sleep around now without even being married right?
If anything, having multiple women at home would probably make him less likely to pursue something outside of his relationships.
For the record, I neither support it nor condemn it, I'm completely apathetic about this issue.
Black men, especially the ones in American, should be the last group on the planet pushing polywhatever relationships. You can wrap a sloppy con in whatever term you want, but anyone with a brain can see a dirty hustle for what it is. I am not even pushing the respectability politics angle. We have brothers invoking African tribal situations who can't even afford a mortgage in which to house one woman, never mind a bunch of women and all of their children. I have female friends who tell me about how men pressure them for a poly arrangement. It is flipping hilarious. Not one of these dudes is paid like that.
Listen instead of pushing excuses to sexually exploit a bunch of desperate, low income, low self-esteem women, why not do the following instead.
1. Fund an all-girl's school for black girls
2. Fund a coop/internship for black women in college
3. Fund an academic scholarship for black women
4. Have an actual economic basic so you can HIRE black women into fulltime jobs
Oh. So you have to confront white supremacists in order to accomplish all this. That is the hard line this poly movement won't face. Instead of building up an economic base where they can actually provide monetary support for the black women without sexual reciprocity, it becomes a low grade form of prostitution. Call it what it is.
All of the things I listed are better solutions than this garbage poly hustle brothers want to push. That nonsense works on weak minded women but any man knows that is just an excuse to get at easy coochie. Come on homes. Do better.
We already have decades of broke brothers getting hit in their pockets by the states for payments to baby mommas. This poly movement is going to get more brothers wrapped up in the system because the bottom line is not even 1% could afford it.
Agreed 100% .
Preach and teach brother!
Thank you for the common sense post.
As a man, I feel that no woman with high self esteem wants to share a man. Basically no woman worth having would be ok with it.
If you says so, "Man"... but what kind of proof would you like? Be very specific in your answer, thank you in advance
Anything that you partake in with bad intentions no matter how well you try to hide those bad intentions, will ultimately result in nothing but bad results. The same goes for polygamy. If a man goes into it with the intentions of simply having multiple sex partners, of course he will only get bullshit in return. If he isn't capable of maintaining one wife and children to the lifestyle that they are used to, then of course he should not entertain bringing in a second wife. It's common sense. But the bottom line is, polygamy should not be viewed as a negative. It is indeed something very positive if it is done right. "Dusty niggas" need not entertain partaking in it, just like they need not entertain in anything besides being "dusty niggas." But why would you only judge polygamy by how a "dusty nigga" would totally fail at it? Should we judge how well a black man can do anything by how bad a "dusty nigga" will fail at it? Is that what fighting white supremacy is really about?
Regarding the guy promoting polygamy. Tariq looked at it as a bad thing because dudes would be knocking up women and having kids everywhere... wait a minute... that's what they're already doing now right?
I don't see how polygamy would encourage that. If anything, the guys who are deadbeats are far less likely to go through the legal process of marriage... multiple times at that!
And Tariq is 100% correct, white people's damn near entire existence is based around black people and black people's lives. They are obsessed with us... especially the males!
Like he said, they talk about us nearly non-stop in their free time. They go online ALL day and create troll accounts to infiltrate black pages, black websites, etc.
Even pages that have nothing to do with blacks they will start spouting anti-black propaganda on. Go on a page that has nothing to do with blacks... It can be an argument about Mexicans, LGBT, Muslims, etc. If you read far enough, eventually it will become an anti-black comment section. Try it.
Btw, Sudan is in Africa... aren't they black as well? o.O
Since when did European powers need to "ask nicely" to plunder an African nation's resources?
I thought Africa and everything in it was white-owned.
Here is the thing. And it always comes back to having
an economic infrastructure. Keep that in mind. That is the point of my post.
Brothers and sisters go off on all of these tangents that have
nothing to do with putting black people on a stronger economical
or military footing.
I don't give a damn about someone having a bunch of mistresses
and random kids as long as my tax dollars are not subsidizing this.
You are right that dusty brothers are doing this now but the difference is that there is no legal framework to support it. That is why the court system crushes them with fines, garnishments and jail time when the county has to step in and subsidize the polywhatever.
Notice what the polywhatever advocates are NOT talking about:
Pooling together MONEY to lobby the politicians to change the laws
such that polywhatever is within a clear legal framework.
Imagine you have multiple wives and various children and there is a transparent legal code so that the court systems doesn't stay jamming you up. Your wives and your children have plainly stated legal rights.
You and I know why these advocates aren't talking about lobbying to make polywhatever legal.
It is because this brothers ain't got no lobby money,
just like Tommy ain't got no job.
You get a strong enough lobby, you can get a lot of things pushed through. Take a look at the homosexuals, gay marriage and whatever.
A bunch of broke brothers are the only ones talking about this.
Brothers who are paid can just switch up women without marrying them and without getting them pregnant.
I don't see paid brothers(outside of professional sports of course)
actually trying to support more than one family at a time.
I mean, talk to men who are divorced and still paying out to an ex-wife. And now brothers want to multiply that?
Again, unless you have a pool of MONEY to influence politics and law makers, then all that talk is a low grade hustle.
Set up a Political Action Committee, call it, JUMPOFF PAC, have a war chest in the multiple millions $$$ to fund sympathetic candidates(start in Utah) and then holler about how this is a good idea.
Broke plus broke always equals broke.
Rich white men who actually HAVE money aren't lobby for this and brothers with no PACs are going to do what exactly?
I really had to let this one sink in...really deep. A interesting thing happened last night. I was watching Dateline and this couple white girl and a brother. The white girl killed her bff and blamed the brother. She said he forced her to do it , he was beating her and she was pregnant and scared to leave him. Now when they spoke to the brother he said it was all her. That she was crazy and had lied to him about numerous things. So in the end it was discovered white girl did it and was a liar and she played the poor white girl under the blackmans control card. He was charged as an accessory but did a little bit of time. The white girl is locked up for life. There were a lot of juicy details but that would take forever to convey.
In the end my impression is that he was very gullible and wanted to truly believe everything this trick had to say. He questioned nothing she told him no mater how far fetched it was. For instance she told him she had to kill her bff bc her family was in the mafia and working as i formats for the govt and it was a ordered hit by the govt. I was like really negro??? But he believed it. He even got this weirdo pregnant( mind you she is ugly as all get out) Once the murder went down and she was caught she played the poor white girl card. Classic white girl defense blame her black mate ..but it didn't work. But the only reason I feel it didn't work wasn't bc he was honestly just a stupid ass that fell for some bullshit. It was bc her trail of lies and crime went on long before him and all her lies she told the brother came out during the investigation. This dude should have really been ashamed of himself for some of the mess he believed.
So Tariq's Othello peice is so very true . I sat my older son down and told him to watch very closely the girls he associates with.
I love how the shittier we treat you blacks, the better music you make. We get rewarded for putting your race in it's place. Negro music is the shit.
Gotta love the white supremacists. Black people come together and they always try to butt in. What's gonna happen is that this guy is gonna spend the next hour trying to bait anyone into an argument to try to get you to ignore talking about how to progress as a race. Ignore and move on! I just wasted 2 hours debating some asshole named Jeremy on the melanoid nation site and it was time I'm not gonna get back.
I see comments like that online and never respond unless the white racist says something easily disproved.
I always tell black people, the only thing white people understand is power. And that power needs to be in the form of hard money or hard weapons.
Yea. Why does someone always validate these punks with a response?
I'll say it 1,000 times. White people (especially MEN) are obsessed with black folks.
They infiltrate all of our spaces (if there is poor moderation). I worked with a group of white boys who were joking how they all had "Blackpeoplemeet.com" accounts. -_-
They loathe the idea of black websites, clubs, groups, etc.
Part of their identity come from controlling everything, otherwise they get insecure.
"They infiltrate all of our spaces (if there is poor moderation). I worked with a group of white boys who were joking how they all had "Blackpeoplemeet.com" accounts. -_-"
I had to let that comment marinate for a minute. That tells you how bold those white boys are with respect to black spaces. Any sufficiently large black organization has been infiltrated from day one. My code is only dealing with 3-5 blacks at a time. And those are the blacks I can see in person. Unless that "black" organization is going full frontal against the system that is killing us, either with money or force, assume that it is run by white people.
There was this website called Bossip that had some of the most incredibly inflammatory headlines re: black people I had ever seen. Supposedly it was a black site run by a black woman. And you know how that con goes. So a long time ago, I googled for the ownership of Bossip, suspecting that it was probably owned by white people. My suspicions came from the fact that the black woman was always referred to as the chief creative officer, not ceo or president. So my guess was that on the the legal paperwork, someone else was the real owner.
I wish I had taken a screen shot of the result I got from the web search. It was a long time ago but I swear the people who owed the people who owned Bossip were all Jewish. Bossip was one company owned by another company. Not even to get into conspiracies. It was just blatant. And then I guess enough people started to question the ownership so they go some token black to be the puppet ceo.
I get the motivation to do so. I think black people as a group, want justice so badly that we think that being logical with racists will get us somewhere. That wishful thinking gets us nowhere.
The problem is that racists know the system is unjust and simply do not care. As black people do not oppress anyone, psychologically we struggle with the mindset of an oppressor.
I've said this before. When those "downlow" black male news stories started circulating, I knew there was some coordinated attack on black men in the local news. The gayest, most homosexually overt comments I have ever heard from nominally straight males were from white men. I can't think of one instance where I have personally heard a black male say anything gay in my presence. White boys though? Watch your back!
Without any close competitors. I have said this before that no group on earth obsesses over black male penis like white males. I went to a lot of African events this year and the white men who showed up were weird as anything. Just a bunch of oddballs. The thing was, a lot of fine looking white women were at these events too. And you know how white men are about white women who are into black culture. I think those white boys were there on some low key sabotage mission. But the organizers were hip so everything was cool.
When a black is into to country music or classical music, the black will go to those events with some humility and soak it up. The whites, particularly the white men at these black events were on some fetish, plantation type mindset. No humility. Really obnoxious and so forth.
As for this site, part of my code is not to even respond to non-substantive comments. I tend to respond to people who have a history of making a good contribution. Let the trolls die where they are. You know in real life, one on one, they are silent.
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