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Ep.#116-The Day Of The Hoodrat Is Over

1/27/2016

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Prince
1/27/2016 09:58:36 pm

Daaaaammmnnn!!!! What little animal came out of that as womb?

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Prince
1/27/2016 11:41:15 pm

BTW, Nate Parker has a showpiece for a wife. There is your answer.

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Sincere
1/28/2016 07:33:41 am

He turned down Netflix offer because they wanted to do a Nat Turner series, but Nate Parker wants to keep it theatrical and put it on a big screen...not sure about the Byron Allen situation.

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Hors Sfier
1/28/2016 08:17:45 am

Sundance: Why Nate Parker Chose Fox Searchlight Over Netflix for 'The Birth of a Nation'
http://www.hollywoodreporter.com/news/sundance-why-nate-parker-chose-859652

Inside Historic Sundance Bidding War for ‘Birth of a Nation': Why Netflix Offered More But Still Lost
http://www.thewrap.com/inside-historic-sundance-bidding-war-for-birth-of-a-nation-why-netflix-offered-more-but-still-lost/

It seems like Nate Parker made the right choice. It is like a chicken and egg problem. Say he wanted to go with Byron Allen's black owned company. Does Mr. Allen have the reach of a Fox or even NetFlix? Say you want to support black business. You want to have the widest reach to motivate people to action. What do you do? Not mad at the cat either way.

He pulled a bit of a Jedi mind on white supremacists.
When I search online for Birth of A Nation, Mr. Parker's film comes up as the first result, even with the results on the older film at the bottom. Funny. Some white supremacists are going to expect that Griffith film and end up with Parker's.

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Me
1/28/2016 12:34:33 pm

They don't have sympathy for black men either

I am also sick of seeing comments from white people, Asians, and others on social media making fun of black men calling them bad fathers or whenever you see a successful Black person on youtube talking about how they made it despite not having a father around there is a bunch of racist people making fun of black men saying "they hate being fathers", etc Individuals in the dominate society, Mexicans, and Asians understand that the family structure is essential that to their survival as a race.

The world looks down on PEOPLE who they see as irresponsible in spite their gender.

Hard question for Tariq - As an accomplish person, the question is why aren't there more brothers responsible for their lives and families like YOU are Tariq?

Conscious brothers pride themselves on "going hard" on black female "hoodrats" but are afraid to go equally hard on black men who are hoodrats. The problem is we go hard on the women and treat the men like fragile creatures who we don't want to hurt their feelings but it should be the opposite because they are supposed to be the STRONG leaders!

The idea that (black) WOMEN are oppressing (black) MEN is some way is laughable in the eyes of the WORLD. Conscious Black man stop saying that and making yourself look bad and weak, you are embarrassing yourself and you don't even know it.

We are not going to go anywhere until black men as the leaders answer this cold hard painful question -


Why are YOU (as a man) letting the white supremacist male continue to dominate YOU?

When this question is answered and we take the hard steps to change it, our men will become strong, and we will be FREE as a people, but unfortunately it feels better emotionally and it is easier to blame powerless female "hoodrats" then to answer that painful question.





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Dc1969
2/1/2016 04:08:17 pm

I hear you on this. What we need,though as black men,military strength.meaning guns.who controls this ? Not us unfortunately.too,too many of us ,especially the elders,bought into this integration nonsense back in the days and this is what led to our downfall. Whereas we did have certain parts of this country under lockdown,we bought into that nonviolence bullshit. The only things that our enemies know is money and violence. Also,i am not one of these brothers who will constantly bash our sisters.there are times though when i just cringe when i see a sister acting like a scared rabbit when acting out.a lot of brothers,too.we are all we got at this point.we have to stop this bashing nonsense.

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HTG
2/3/2016 03:30:17 am

Women and hoodrats aren't in the same league. Tariq is referring to hoodrats.

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Hors Sfier
1/28/2016 01:04:09 pm

That is some hard truth on the hatred for hoodrats. In my area, if a black woman is on the news, print or television, ninety nine percent of the time it is for some hoodrat antics and they are getting clowned by the anchors. For a while, the local news was running weave store robbery stories. It was a shame. A white woman has to kill her child to make the news here. Otherwise, the white women are portrayed as loving mothers. In 2014, I read a good article on a black businesswoman in our daily paper. I had to read it twice to believe they actually printed good news about black women.

We don't have a major gang problem so unless it is sports, you rarely see a black man on the news. Most brothers around here keep a low profile. The cops aren't playing.

It is funny how you have a certain segment of the black woman (some not all) population that wants to claim independence, they like to say that no man can tell them what to do, then as soon as they get into a jacked up situation off some dusty man, it is a man's fault. But dang, I thought these women were strong and independent?

There are dozens of types of birth control on the market. If a hoodrat can't decide to enforce the use of one in order to safe guard her own future, then of course she is going to be in a messed up in the game. She has no vision for her future so any dusty, borderline mentally disabled man can have his way with her. Responsible black men can't be held responsible for her poor choices.

In my home state, they came down hard on hoodrats. They cut that welfare and food stamp down to the point that getting knocked up by a dusty man became a losing proposition even to the most lowly of hoodrat. Word got out that the county was not cutting checks like that.

And I am tired of black women who ask an accomplished black man to explain the motivations and actions of a dusty black man. If you want answers about the dusty black man, go ask the dusty black man himself. Black men of authority and power do not slum with the bums. One black women said that black men need to start lecturing other grown black men on knocking up a bunch of low self-esteem hoodrats. I just kept thinking, why can't these birds keep their panties up? Problem solved.

And that refusal to take control of their own reproductive cycles is partially why white feminists absolutely hate hoodrats and put no time into defending them

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miclow link
2/1/2016 05:56:36 am

Well said.

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HTG
2/3/2016 03:34:00 am

Where do you live bro? They need to do that nationwide.

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smh
1/28/2016 03:27:22 pm

Being a hoodrat is a state of mind and you can only be one if your mom or whoever raised you was one or you grew up in the hood and the environment made you think and act in a toxic manner. Black men have had everything under the sun said about them so theres nothing else to say. Hoodrat bitches and ratchets need to be exterminated. They have these babies with men who arent shit and expect society to have a woe is mentality torwards them. NO its your fault and your mothers or whoever raised you fault for not teaching you how to love yourself. Black women who no better still dont do better because again you didn't choose better and you not choosing better is due to the fact that you have no self worth. Black men as a whole do not care for their children that is a fact not the baby mama or the system or child support. If his father wasn't there than he wont go to great lengths to be there. Damaged women having babies with broken men 4 generations and counting. We are toxic to each other because we never healed from abuse by this country. Black men simply dont care on a grand scale to build a structure. We as women cannot do that its against our nature. Until the mentality changes between us and the cycle FINALLY stops the ghettos and projects will always be full of babies with no daddies and men who never had daddies. The ratio of black boys to girls is equal during adolescents but by the time black men are 21 the ratio is 1 black man for 7 women and that is by design.

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Shok
1/30/2016 07:52:03 am

U damn right about that!. It ultimately comez down to mentality... And choice.

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Black Kash
1/28/2016 05:48:32 pm

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Grass is Greener
1/28/2016 07:24:22 pm

I'm glad nigger culture made the country forget about Elliot Rodgers. That guy almost ruined my senior year in high school. Suddenly, I was the guy who looked like Elliot Rodgers. keep on niggin!

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Dc1969
1/29/2016 07:21:46 pm

You are a white nigger,grass is greener. Now what?

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Mr. Jon
1/29/2016 02:23:56 pm

JESUS CHRIST!!!

That Tyronda could've stood on stage with a banana in one hand, a watermelon in the other, made monkey noises and that would've been FAAAAR less embarrassing.

The thing that defines hoodrats is lack of social awareness. She told that story as if she had absolutely NO idea how much of an idiot it made her look like. Conan was cool with Tariq and I know Tariq wouldn't've went on his show if he thought Conan was a W.S., so I'm a bit surprised that he encouraged ol' girl to make a ghetto fool out of herself.

Also: Why is it that ANY white owned company, organization, etc. is by default white supremacist? Could there just be a non-racist white owned organization by accident? I mean, every social network site in some way caters to white supremacy. Tariq is wary of selling the movie to a white company because they'll whitewash it.

White people talk all day about how they're "not all racist". Where the F*ck are the white studios/ producers who'll do a movie without a white savior, protagonist, damsel in distress, white supremacist agenda etc. ?

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Hors Sfier
1/29/2016 04:20:54 pm

"so I'm a bit surprised that he encouraged ol' girl to make a ghetto fool out of herself."

The thing is, Conan's production people probably did not have to do much to get that story out of her when they screened her. If she was an A-list white actor, that story would have ONLY gotten exposed in the tabloids, meaning some relative of hers would have sold her out. That is how you find out the dirt on white actors. She is a C-list black actor. If she was A-list and worth anything, her management would have screened out those type of questions.

And forget the celebrity part, I have heard black people in corporate settings put out dirt that no one even asked about. I worked with a black woman who for whatever reason felt the need to tell everyone that another man got her pregnant while she was still legally married. Meanwhile, a few white girls get knocked up out of wedlock and don't say jack, not a word, not a peep. And don't you dare ask about the baby's father. That white becky will cut you and then report you to HR for harassment.

It is that craving for attention and for being entertainment. Tim Allen the actor and comedian did time for selling heroin. I guarantee you that never comes up in his interviews. Laura Bush committed vehicular homicide as a teenager. It never comes up.
More recently, Robert Downey got up and left an interview when the questions about his drug rehab came up. When you are an entertainer worth something, you protect your brand. I read some interview about this dumb Taronda where she said something about being near homeless when the Empire role came up. So read that as you will.

I have two books on Malcolm X, the autobiography and the follow up. Both of those books are published by white companies and were bought from white owned stores. The most anti-white supremacist books I ever bought were purchased from white owned book store chains. That changed a bit when I moved to a black populated area. No joke.

So even when we put out material attacking and damning white supremacists, the distributors are still white people. White people make money enforcing and condemning white supremacy.
This system is crazy. We need to get out of it.

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Mr. Jon
1/29/2016 02:48:29 pm

Also, I think it's good that the day of the hoodrat is over. Isn't all of these "handouts" the reason the black family unit was destroyed in the first place?

I mean, it was that and the mass incarceration right? At least one half of the equation is being removed.

I never understood the logic behind blaming black men for hoodratish behavior... as if we all force them to have 20 kids by 21 different guys. Who is raising these dudes? BLACK WOMEN!

And don't worry, I say the same thing when these white liberal girls want to bitch about cishet, white, heteronormative, straight, males, blah blah blah... As if they're being grown in a vacuum? Your pixie cut ass is raising them too! lol

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G
1/30/2016 03:41:42 am

Really Tariq? I respect everyones opinion but you sound ridiculous. You really should have left this subject alone. Hoodrats should keep their legs closed? Everyone, regardless of their economic status, has a right to reproduce. For every hoodrat there is a dusty nigga. Many of these hoodrats dont have the resources to move out of the hood to an area where there are better options, dating wise. If she is pretty, she might get lucky and catch a baller who will get her out of the hood. But for a hoodrat who looks like Precious, dusty niggas are her only options. Lets just be real here. By saying hoodrats should just stop having kids Tariq is being intellectually dishonest. Its not that simple and he knows that.

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BoomerGal
1/30/2016 06:43:46 am

Naw, sorry, not buying it. Yours is a rationalization for irresponsible behavior. Planned Parenthood and too many clinics offer and provide all kinds of contraceptives. There is no excuse other than thinking a baby is going to keep a man, which is patently false. People talk about brothers not being responsible parents when most aren't ready to be parents in the first place but hood rats don't care what the brother thinks, what he wants doesn't seem to matter and so begins the cycle of resentment and poverty.

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Prince
1/31/2016 07:23:20 am

You have a right not to reproduce with hoodrats or dusty niggas. There is a top for every pot.
You have a right to not engage in the cycle of poverty

Us so called conscious folk need to stop focusing on what those who exist in a low frequency and what they are or are not doing and stay focused on what we need to do. We can't, won't, and,will not save everybody.
There will always be bottom feeders and trash collectors. Every ecosystem has them. Like catfish and snails. Let's not turn a blind eye to the dust mites that exist in every ethnic group. In every trap,there is someone who ain't hustling as hard or pulling their weight.

Prince
1/31/2016 07:26:58 am

Also, in general, there exists women at all income levels who have children just to keep a man. Depending on the mentality of the female in question, depends on the mentality of the male they choose to cohabitate with.

Mr. Jon
1/30/2016 08:18:31 am

Looks like we have a hit dog hollerin'!

" Everyone, regardless of their economic status, has a right to reproduce."

Legally, yes... does that mean they SHOULD??

How about a child abuser/ molester? How about someone who has 7 kids and is broke and will cause another child to suffer an impoverished life?

What about someone who puts all of their children in the system to suffer? You get the point...

Draw a distinction between "can" and "should".

"Many of these hoodrats dont have the resources to move out of the hood to an area where there are better options, dating wise"

Miss me with the "I'm a product of my environment" b.s.

You ALWAYS have a choice of who you associate and reproduce with. While one cannot always control their economic status, you always have the options of where you can go to meet people. For god's sakes most of dating is done online today. You don't have to leave your living room to find a decent guy/girl.

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Shok
1/30/2016 07:58:50 am

I wish we were able to get passed all theze bullshit cliquez and dumb argumentz, and get on code az 1, period! But it goez back to the tribal warz. Even when we got stole from Africa and was on them boatz together, we still couldn't get along!! Smh nothing will change az a whole for black ppl

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Hors Sfier
1/30/2016 08:49:42 am

Hmmmm. I suspect we got some white people in here trying to pose as blacks. White trolls always overdo it.

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Mr. Jon
1/31/2016 04:30:37 am

@Hors Sfier

I read somewhere that Menace II society and The Wire were so acclaimed because the dialogue was authentic. The latter was casted with many actial Baltimore natives.

I bring this up because if you leave the script-writing to white guys you'll get a whole lotta "Yea, home skillet!" and "Yo, cracka!" and a bunch of phrases black people haven't used since the lay 70's!

Like the post you are referring to.

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Mr. Jon
1/31/2016 04:32:01 am

*late 70's

Hors Sfier
2/1/2016 04:27:37 pm

Man, I grew up in the inner city with my family. Almost all of the kids in my generation(siblings, cousins, etc) came from urban areas. None of us spoke in slang all of the time. We threw in a word or a phrase here and there. Otherwise, we spoke english same as anyone else.
White people though, have no sense of subtlety, no sense when they try to recreate that negro dialect. Even when I watch old film footage of blacks from back in the day, they spoke in regular english, rarely full out slang. White people stay stuck on that jive talk from that Airplane! movie.

Dc1969
2/1/2016 04:13:52 pm

Yes,this is their nature.they can't help but be nosy interlopers.

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Hors Sfier
2/1/2016 04:31:46 pm

Yup, they stay paranoid about that wheel of justice turning back around on them.

My cousin used to plan online FPS. You know demographically most of the players are white. Anyway, I was amazed at how much the white boys online would throw the word nigger around, even though there was nothing black about the game. I didn't understand how my cousin could play those games with the volume on. Those white boys would talk all kinds of crazy about blacks while they were playing those games.

Davonta
1/30/2016 09:08:02 am

Anyone knows the name of the song in the beginning of the podcast?

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G
1/30/2016 12:41:35 pm

@Mr. Jon

Shaming poor and uneducated people for reproducing is something which has been done for decades. Please come up with something new. Until Obama, there was no awareness on lack of health insurance for poor americans. No health insurance likely means no affordable birth control and even with some insurance plans, pills are still expensive. Places like planned parenthood still charge for pills. It wasnt until recently that some white feminists were promoting the idea birth control pills should be free and they were SHAMED for it. Damned If you do, damned if you dont.

As a male, you have the privilege of not having to worry about the cost of birth control, use some of Tariq's mackin lessons, then point the finger at her when she gets pregnant.

A women can be in a relationship for years, have a child and now the man has moved on with no contact. Whether the child is concieved in wedlock or not, there is always the chance of single motherhood if the union dissolves. Men like you and Tariq seem to think single motherhood is always the result of women being sexually loose. How many lies will you tell to excuse bad behavior?

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Mr. Jon
1/31/2016 04:24:33 am

" A women can be in a relationship for years, have a child and now the man has moved on with no contact. Whether the child is concieved in wedlock or not, there is always the chance of single motherhood if the union dissolves. Men like you and Tariq seem to think single motherhood is always the result of women being sexually loose. How many lies will you tell to excuse bad behavior? "

Nice try, but the argument was hoodrats. Now you're attempting to convolute it with divorcees.

So to recap:
Women can't control getting pregnant and can't control who they choose as a mate. Got it

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Truth
1/30/2016 05:34:38 pm

Black women make too may excuses for reckless reproducing.

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1/30/2016 09:30:04 pm

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Dc1969
2/1/2016 04:17:39 pm

Please leave the religious fanaticism out of the discussion.too much of that has screwed most of us up as it is.

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SkyChopper
1/31/2016 12:02:54 pm

ESSAY: WHY REAL MEN AVOID SINGLE MOTHERS
By Shawn James

1. Never Available. A single Mother’s schedule is never open. Single mothers are the kind of women to always cancel dates at the last minute. Something always gets in the way of a man spending time with her. It’s hard to have a relationship with her because she’s never there.

2. YOU are NOT a priority. Usually in a relationship the man winds up DEAD LAST. Behind, her kids, her job, the car, the kitchen sink, the stopped up toilet. Even the dog gets more attention and affection than a man involved with a single mother. Any man who gets involved with a single mother winds up a fifth stringer in a relationship. And he rarely ever gets called up to play.

3. Thinks the world revolves around HER and ONLY HER. A single mother is one of the biggest narcissists on the dating scene. She often thinks that a man has to drop everything in his life to be part of hers and her kids. They’re so selfish they don’t think a man has needs, wants or a life of his own. He’s just supposed to be there to give her everything she wants in life.

4. Emotionally Unavailable- Most Single mothers cannot form an intimate connection with a man because her feelings are invested in other people. Usually her primary focus is on her children.

In addition to dedicating herself to her children, most single mothers have given their hearts to someone else- their children’s father. And those feelings she still has for him will always prevent her from getting closer to you. There will always be some distance between a single mother and the new man in her life.

5. The ex/ Baby Daddy is ALWAYS THERE. A man just doesn’t deal with a single mother. He deals with her ex or her baby daddy as well. And this guy is always hovering around like a helicopter looking to c*ckblock you. Some of these guys still think they have a shot at getting back with her. Others just don’t want to see her happy. A lot of these dudes want to f!ght over her.

Seriously, it’s a game they’re playing with each other. And they’ll be playing that game with each other until their children turn 18 or 21. Head for the exit. It’s just not worth dealing with this fool and his insecure bullshyt.

6. The kids are working AGAINST YOU When dealing with a single mother you also deal with Kids. Kids who still in their little heart of hearts think that Dad will come back and love them.

Seriously, GET THE HELL OUT OF THERE.

7. Those kids will HATE YOU. They will act out to keep you from getting closer to mommy. They will make accusations against you to get you in trouble. Again, it’s just not worth dealing with the bullsh*t to get with a female. There are four billion women in the world. You can find a quality female who doesn’t carry all this baggage or give you this much grief.

8. Entitled attitude Single mothers think because she had a baby out of wedlock the world owes her EVERYTHING. And she thinks she’s the one who deserves the best. Even though she’s usually collecting welfare, food stamps, or child support, in eyes she’s still supposed to be treated like she’s a queen because she popped a kid out of her v*gina.

In their deluded distorted vision of the world Men are still supposed to take her out to the finest restaurants and buy them lots of expensive stuff. And he’s supposed to take care of her kids too, buying them whatever they want while taking a blind eye to their bad behavior.

9. Distorted self-image Single mothers still thinks she’s as sexy like she was before she had a baby. Only she doesn’t understand how her body has changed. In some cases for the worse.

Single mothers are the type to try to squeeze themselves into sexy outfits like low-rise jeans and cropped T-shirts to show off their belly button, not seeing the muffin top and stretch marks squeezing out over the top of their pants. They’re the type to stuff themselves into slinky spandex dresses, (not aware of that gut, and the cellulite on their asses) and head out to the club. She thinks men are supposed to run up on her offering to buy her drinks. And because a few thirsty simps step to her, she thinks she’s still got it. But the only people who wants what she has to offer are scavengers at the bottom of the social scene.

10. Always the victim. Single Mothers never take responsibility for their actions. The situation they’re in is always the fault of that “no good man”, “these damn kids” their mother or someone else. They never take any time to do any self-examination or make any efforts to change their lives. They’re still looking for some Rich Incredibly Handsome Man™ to put on a cape and play Captain Save-A-Hoe™, sweep her off her feet and take her out of the troubling situation she helped make.

11. Jekyll & Hyde Personality. A single mother will be the sweetest t

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SkyChopper
1/31/2016 12:05:14 pm

11. Jekyll & Hyde Personality. A single mother will be the sweetest thing when a man first dates her, but a few months into a relationship she turns into a NUTJOB. A man will usually see glimpses of this when she chastises her kids when he first meets them. During that meeting she’ll yell at them and bully them to get them to act right while praising a man like he’s an angel.

It’s all an act. Heaven will turn into Hell around the six month mark.

Once a single mother gets a man settled into her life it’s not common for her to start verbally abusing him and mocking him as she projects all that pent-up rage from those previous failed relationships onto him. And it’s usually around this point that most men realize why this woman is single and why it’s time for him to hit the exit door.

12. Drama Queen. Because a single mother always sees herself as a victim of society, she’s always talking about her problems. And she always has a new trouble to bring everyone. There’s never a good day in the life of a single mother because there’s always some new crisis about to emerge in her life.

The reason single mothers need the drama is because it makes them feel important. It makes people pay attention to them. And when Captain-Save-A-Hoe™ is doting on them trying to solve their problems it makes them feel an artificial sense of value. They need that value to deflects people’s attention from how pathetic their lives actually are.

Manipulative In most cases, a single mother has no interest in a man she’s dating. In a lot of cases she’s just using a guy as a pawn.

13. In most cases she’s dating to make her Baby Baddy jealous. Deep down in her heart of hearts she believes that if she’s seen with someone else who sees her as valuable that he’ll see her as valuable and take her back.

In other cases when she’s not trying to get a rise out of Baby Daddy she’s playing the sympathy card™ using a guy to get gifts, free dinners and free drinks out of him. To a single mother, The men in her lives are just human ATM machines where she whispers a sweet nothing in his ear like a PIN number and money comes out of his wallet.

And because she’s a drama queen who loves to play the victim, the Single mother plays to men’s emotions to get them to react in the way she wants. It’s not common for a single mother to tell her man man about her baby daddy so he can go f!ght him. Or pit two baby daddies against each other. Many a man has wound up either dead or in prison because a single Mother played the victim card™.

14. Dishonest. A single mother is a LIAR. It’s how she gets what she wants. It’s how she manipulates people. It’s how she takes care of her kids. It’s how she survives in this world.

Single mothers lie. And they LIE ALL THE TIME. They lie to men about their age, their height, their weight, how many kids they have, the job they do.

On top of the lies they tell to others They lie to themselves. They lie about about how beautiful they are. They lie telling themselves they’re still a catch. They lie telling themselves they still have a chance with a good man. They lie telling themselves that their lives will be happily ever after one day.

The horrible truth is without those lies most of those single mothers would realize how pathetic their lives are. How they have no options in the dating scene. That they’re at the bottom of the barrel in the dating scene and the only men who want them are pathetic Manginas and thirsty Simps.

15. Carries Baggage, baggage and more baggage A single mother has more issues than Time and Newsweek combined. And when she’s looking for a man, she’s not looking for an equal caring partner. She’s looking for a Pullman Porter™ to take care of her kids, and clean up her messes with her childrens’ father. Brothers, don’t let yourself get sized up for the white jacket and the bow tie!

Anyway, dealing with a single mother is like walking through a minefield. After several months of being involved with her, it leaves a man anxious and tense because he doesn’t know where to step that won’t lead to an explosion that k!lls him.

That’s why Real Men avoid single mothers like disease.

Real men understand life is too short to put up with someone’s drama and their emotional baggage. We only have a limited time on God’s Earth and who wants to spend it being a Pullman Porter cleaning up someone else’s messes. As I stated before in a previous blog, let that woman take her run over Jimmy Choos and clean up her own mess. She made her bed, now let her lie in the wet spot.

Don’t date single mothers and don’t waste your time with them. There are four billion women in this world. If you’re patient, you’ll find a good one.

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Jeffrey Whitaker
2/1/2016 02:44:15 pm

Yoooooo SkyChopper you took the words RIGHT OUTTA MY MOUTH. It was like you were reading my MIND! Just one thing to add to your theory...I think that not only REAL MEN, but also REAL MEN THAT DON'T HAVE KIDS OF THEIR OWN. Damn man Is it OK if I copy and paste this on my FB page? because I'm diggin your theory, well laid out. in Fresno we have TONS of what I call SMS..Single Mother SLUTS! And they all seem to suffer from what I call the High and Mighty Single Mother Syndrome which is EXACTLY what you stated!!!!

Dc1969
2/1/2016 04:29:11 pm

Damn!!!! You broke it down to fucking tee!!! Went thru 2 situations like what you talked about back in 2007 and 2010 with two different females.learned from both of those situations not to get emotionally caught up with single mothers again. Once again,excellent analysis.

Dc1969
2/1/2016 04:21:27 pm

Real talk!!!!

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Purnell Jenkins
2/1/2016 01:10:55 am

That was very deep insightful and you broke it down to a science where the blind can really understand the mindset of a single mother........i used the same ideologies as you displayed when it came to dating single mothers....a man is not going to win that war with all the stuff she has brought to the table. If you blog please let me know

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SkyChopper
2/1/2016 08:52:32 pm

I take no credit for that post. It's a copy and paste from MTO.

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Hors Sfier
2/3/2016 09:33:07 am

To be clear, I don't really have a problem with black women who were born in jacked up situations and never had a chance to see something different. Growing up in the hood or the projects does not automatically translate to a hoodrat or goon. It is what you do with your options that will tell me what you really are.

When I hear hoodrat, it is really a mentality, a thirst for dusty, grimy men, no matter what the circumstance. Case in point:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Antoinette_Frank


And over on the east coast, back in 2014, there was the case of a Baltimore prison where the black female guards were having sex with the prisoners. One prisoner got two black female guards pregnant. The Washington Post and Baltimore Sun had decent write ups on what happened. These women had such low self-esteem and such thirst for sex that they had to violate prisoners. And according to the law those prisoners could not consent so those women were looking at charges. How can someone defend that?

The bottom line is that you cannot rescue, save or lead a black woman who has a hoodrat mentality. I know black girls who grew up in the suburbs but would go chase down some clown in the hood. It happens all the time. Women like that should be abandoned to their own devices. There is no salvation for them. And they will ruin the lives of men who try. The worst thing a black men with sense would do is get near any dusty man or hoodrat.

Oh. Somehow women in the porn and prostitution industry, who have some of the most jacked up backgrounds, somehow they have figured out birth control. A virile man breathes next to a hoodrat and she gets pregnant. I don't understand. But good luck with that. We'll see how that works out for the hoodrat in the short and long term.

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R8sing A Nation
2/3/2016 10:54:27 am

@BoomerGal is very correct by saying there are far to many options in ways to prevent pregnancy. As harsh as it may sound the women of China found a way as well Russian women. For the record I know about how women were aborting like crazy ,casting children aside and now they have population issues. I'm just pointing out that it is humanly possible lay up and not produce offspring. I do get that for every Hoodrat there is a dusty dude . But how about women start being women and requiring more of the men we lay up with. I'm not talking about cash etc.. In all honesty the power of the V is strong to a man. So if a dude is trying to hit and he's dusty.. lightweight curb him and help elevate him out of some of his dustyness! Get to know a mofo set up some standards..such as if I allow you to raw dog me and I get pregnant at the least you need to be apart of any offspring we create. If he isn't down than he keep it pushing or if he does not take care of any other children keep it moving. Women want to front like they got no control and find themselves pregnant and alone. I call b.s. I've heard chicks talk about they got "baby fever" but are single and in no time are pregnant. Women get pregnant by low budget dudes and then curb them..only to shame the man for being dusty and play the "poor me game". Sorry ladies but it's your fault for letting a dusty dude knock you up...elevate your standards or like I said before help elevate the guy. Women got to stop with a mans value is only his check. Money is crucial to raising kids but I've known many of men that stay home and take care of the kids. In other cultures these days it's consideted hip and great. But it black society it's frowned at. Fathers have a lot to offer kids in the forms of protection,love, and self esteem. So if a women can make more and the brother is out of work allow that man to be a daily part of the childs life. Women are so quick to cut access to a child based on the financial situation of the father. I see a lot more of that ..than dudes just knocking a girl up and dipping out. A common misconception is that hoodrats are not smart and I want to believe they have enough sense to require more of their sexual partners. If hoodrats elevate their game then so shall dusty dudes. Women stop acting like we got no pussy control or power..be smart about it.

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Hors Sfier
2/3/2016 10:22:03 pm

@R8sing A Nation
Perfectly stated.

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Young Simba
2/6/2016 02:40:07 am

Bad news if Fox...666 channel got a hold of it. You already know how they operate with Fox news and there productions. Not a good move...they might have threatened his family and said you better take this 17 million nigga. Respect for the brother getting his goals accomplished and making moves but I agree that he should have went with a all black project...but like I said they at Fox, probably threatened him to take their lower offer. But only time will tell. Black people we have power through unity...follow this brother's move and make positive moves. But as you see the WS's and we know very well that's what Fox is all about...threw this brother some change and he went with it. They have to put their claws in our work so we need to go completely independent regardless of the backlash...there is power in unity. There are the progressive and the destructive...know which one you are dealing with.

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Young Simba
2/6/2016 03:11:06 am

Also peep game!!! Tariq is dropping knowledge when he is talking about concentrations camps!! EVERYONE GO LOOK UP FEMA CAMPS ON YOUTUBE...THE SHIT IS REAL. WHO WAS SENT IN FOR HURRICANE KATRINA...FEMA. SOMETHING IS BEING PLANNED AND YOU WON'T SEE IT ON THE NEWS. I see some terrible things planned for the next few years...and Donald Trump, a leading presidential candidate is blatant with his racist views and arrogance, but get this MANY OF THEM FEEL THE SAME WAY THEY ARE JUST USING HIS ASS AS THEIR VOICEBOX WHETHER HE WINS OR NOT...this stuff was all predicted in Revelations...but I'm going far for many of you won't understand because you haven't gotten right with God. That's the most important move. Je'sus spoke to save the lost children of Israel...Je'sus wasn't the white image you see in the media. Lambs wool hair and dark skin...brass colored...don't be fooled and know your salvation from the sins of this world because it's gonna get really wild in the next few years. We live in this world but we will all die and have to face judgement. Realest talk.

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Young Simba
2/6/2016 03:40:23 am

I see you Tariq. That was a good freestyle, we black people and man in general, really are made in God's image, as it says in the Bible. Look at all the amazing things we black people do...but again I'm just focusing on us blacks at the moment because there are too many that try to lord over us in the "dominant" society that try to disempower black people because they fear our power, what we can do when we know who we are. All men do great things because we are all God's children...we just look different and speak different because again...as it states in the bible...we were scattered and our languages confused after trying to ignorantly war with our Father...read about the tower of Babel...and compare that to what crazy men are doing with that machine Cern...trying to make black holes on earth and bring about DARK energy...real shit. Praying to a goddess of destruction...REAL SHIT. Research it. But I digress, being isolated in different environments evolved our physical features over time...along with forcing us to develop different cultures and languages. Tariq may have been trying to joke with that incredibly creative freestyle but that was real talk. Be humble and give praise to the most High God, our father in heaven, your creator, study the bible and Je'sus' teachings, if you choose, God gave us free will, because one thing is certain...WE ARE ALL GOING TO DIE ONE DAY...I've had near death experiences and have seen spiritual things most people wouldn't believe...the dark and the light...and we will face judgement for our actions. Be blessed and keep teaching this great knowledge.

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