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EP.#17-"What Is A Stable Relationship?"

2/19/2014

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In this episode,Tariq talks about the realities of a "stable" relationship.
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Leo
2/19/2014 06:26:37 pm

I agree Flex...If both parties are not benefiting from a relationship it defeats the purpose of its existence. Its a waist of time,energy and resources. This show hits home because I've experienced something similar. I was in a relationship were I was financially and emotionally unstable. I ended up depending on my ex so much it started to drain her energy then her frustration would manifest itself by her lashing out and disrespecting me. I wasn't holding down a job ,she would kick me out numerous times and I would beg her to let me back in. Every time I did that I felt like my balls were being chopped off, I felt like a shell of a man.... to sum it up...worthless. No longer will I ever go through that or put another woman through that again. I'm going to make sure I have my shit together, at least on an emotional level before I get back in anything serious. Great show...Good food for thought....Keep dropping jewels and enlightening our people brotha.



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king _e_1984
2/26/2014 10:04:26 pm

Great show Tariq. I just recently seperated from my wife about two months. There was no stability,i was the financial provider, I made sure my home was in order, cook and clean, did luandry, took care of my kids, and paid the majority of the bills. My wife became too comfortable with the situatuon and became very lazy. It had got to the point where she stopped caring about her physical apperance. Moreover, the physical fights between us lead with me bringing an end to our 9 year relationship. I really felt as if she was draining my energy.

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junior
2/19/2014 11:09:04 pm

fuck yeah tell them again!!!!! started with a bang i felt that and i only heard up to 15 mins lol

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Not your average Jo
2/20/2014 07:56:53 pm

Family I know you may not understand where I'm coming from (unless you've spent time in the Armed Forces or the 3 letter organizations; sitting with, congregating with, and bumping shoulders with the powers) but please try... all we've got is each other.

There are well known organizations that when you speak out agaisnt racism and white supremacy, the following happen:
1- Your phone, internet, and social means of communication are broken into, hacked, monitored, cut, blocked, and manipulated.
2- Agents follow you everywhere you go and legal problems start to come up.
3- ELF waves are used for the purpose of manipulating your thought patterns so you can get labeled insane and to flat out destroy your life.
4- Naturally, steps 1 to 3 are used for economic castration, and blackmail.
5- All the public hears about is the suicides and accidents that are in fact murders. But black on black crimes are so common that these murders are rarely intensely investigated.

By the way, all this is done in the military with your tax dollars. But, don't take my word for it. Here's two well know stories: Aaron Alexis and Christopher Jordan Dorner. Peace.

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Not your average Jo
2/20/2014 07:57:54 pm


I only wrote this to let you guys know some of the rules of racism and racial politics that goes on higher up the food chain beyond your day to day workplace.

But first of all this is about what has happened and is still going on at Fort Sill in Oklahoma under the following people:

Colonel Gene Meredith,
Lieutenant Colonel Robert A Krieg and
First Sergeant Scott J. Schomaker,
Captain Joshua J. Phillips; to include
First Sergeant Leondra Felder.

I am an Intelligence Officer so I (obviously) can't say too much. My colleagues are taking part in these acts and they don't have the free will to say no.

More importantly, you guys need to know about the hell that our people are going through in these white organizations. The trick to it is that blacks have signed a contract to be in these organizations. That means when they speak out they are trapped and the whites can do whatever they want to them.

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TJ Brown
2/25/2014 09:41:13 pm

I'm sure that place isn't the only one doing this.

The avereage white person thinks this, and the average General also thinks this....

That is if you're black you should be considered a nigger and you should always be placed on the bottom.

Blacks are the only ones who don't know this and be competing with themselves.

Hors Sfier
2/21/2014 01:37:53 am

Man, Tariq is the only one breaking down the game like this, from the street to the corporate power structure. It is true. Brother, thank you so much for sharing and clarifying the game.

Black people need to stabilize before we come together to do anything, from starting a business to starting a family. A lot of these kids come from parents who were mentally and financially unstable from the start. No wonder the kid is jacked up. It is also a mark of a real man when he can at least support himself with his income.
You get all kinds of unstable people coming together. It is no surprise that the communities are a mess.

It is almost a crime to be single and stable in the black community. The black women have to be up under some man, according to society and the black church. This is why a lot of men have zero incentive to do anything, when you know some decent looking black woman will breed and feed with you. I was shocked when I found out how many desperate women were trying to play mommy to grown men by buying them cell phone plans.

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Td3
2/22/2014 05:18:42 am

The culture has been fucked up by the Drum, the music. Everything you can point to that is wrong with ppl's minds and communities is glamorized by this shit.. yes! its only supposed to be Entertainment. As long as you've got African in you, you will always be moved by the drum! ALWAYS. It's getting worse...Black girls and women their lowered self-image & esteem, celebrating getting pussy and other levels of ratchetness/shallowness, hyper-aggression, glorifying destructive behaviors and communities etc, etc...This is not only Black mega voice raising severely misguided Black children, but it'll later guide them too making life all about those same exact elements of the music, especially when they're parents cant show them money We are not white ppl! and if there is anything they got from good music they got it from us. We've turned around and used it on ourselves.. and too many are getting drunk off that culture, as it seems to be the only Black dominate culture. They've proudly allowed it to destroy them and their subsequent generations.

the Best thing is to move on and Build. At least we know what problems are out there and worth fixing. Get a solid group of Africans/AAs to work with, they're out here and see this obvious shit too.

If Im preaching to the choir then we need to be working together on here and stop waiting on ppl. Where #TeamHiddenColors at these days??!!

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TJ Brown
2/25/2014 09:33:08 pm

Hey man I'm sure that place isn't the only one doing this.

The avereage white person thinks this, and the average General also thinks this....

If you're black you should be considered a nigger and you should always be placed on the bottom.

Blacks are the only ones who don't know this and be competing with themselves.

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Fran Jacob
4/15/2014 04:00:18 am

Dear Tariq,

Charles Rawlings, M.D., J.D., my client, is the author of “It Really Is That Complicated.” I reviewed some of your shows and I believe that Dr. Rawlings would make a great guest.

"It Really Is That Complicated" examines and dissects multiple relationship issues including what Rawlings calls the horrors of marriage, the degeneration of romance and eroticism into the mundane and boring as well as the deal-breaking power struggles over control, money, and property. "In a relationship, the one who holds the power is the person who cares the least," Rawlings says; and this truism can be recognized at every level of any type of relationship.

Couples hit plateaus, says Dr. Rawlings, which are followed by the real mood-killers: boredom, inhibition, and lack of satisfaction and poor communication. But can the sexual fires ever be rekindled? Rawlings says they can, but only through complete physical and emotional makeovers.

Dr. Rawlings has experience and feels comfortable as a radio show guest and I believe that your listeners will learn something from him.

I would also like to send you a review copy of his book.

Please contact Fran at HobNobBooks@aol.com or 818-232-0776

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