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Ep.#30-AgGressive Submissiveness In Men

5/21/2014

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In this episode Tariq talks about how  the single mother mentality effects the minds and actions of men today.
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look at that damn picture!
5/21/2014 12:03:29 pm

Man kanye has started some real bitch shit,man smh.These type of black ppl are on some real weak shit and its mainly because of them not knowing better.When you don't know better you fall for whatever is being pushed on you.Its crazy too because they are so unaware that they don't even know this was predicted less then ten years ago.

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Queen link
5/24/2014 10:41:16 pm

I am sorry brother, you cannot blame Kanye for this behavior. What about the brother basketball player that wore wedding gowns on the court in the NBA, looking like a big doofus? I guess that was o.k. because he's a basketball player? And the fact that most black men & women think playing basketball is the only way out?

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Hors Sfier
5/26/2014 02:35:49 am

Yeah, Kanye is the fruit(ha) not the root of this nonsense. The root being single mother households. Not to give Dennis Rodman a pass but Rodman was so out there so fast that he really did not influence black culture. His white fans were the ones checking on that. Now that I think about it, there was a weird proportion of black professional players who were cross dressing. Ricky Williams did that wedding cover with Mike Ditka. Larry Johnson crossed-dressed as his grandmother. Most recently there was fat Charles Barkley as Alicia Keys. It is just weird. You do not see anywhere near the same proportion of white athletes putting on lipstick and makeup.

This behavior is a systematic breakdown of the black community. Keep the men in jail or under siege, you can do whatever you want with the women and by extension the children. Young boys need to learn how to channel energy from other men. You can not possibly learn that as a man from a woman because most of them are too emotional. The black community in America is the only matriarchy and it is the most dysfunctional. Coincidence?

look at that damn picture!
5/21/2014 12:07:26 pm

With the cursed serapis picture shirt on smh damn.Time to get out of america.

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Me
5/21/2014 12:17:11 pm

Tariq had me until he said societies are in decline when women are the leaders. Not true. The Europeans had many queens who ruled huge empires like Elizabeth and Isabella (the queen who paid Christopher Columbus to come to America), etc. All you have to do is Google European empires and find this info. I thought he was a historian. He should know better.

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um
5/21/2014 12:23:08 pm

European queens were taking baths once a month while living in Barnes with pigs.What tariq said is very true as a matter of fact everywhere Isabella went she got into relationships with the rulers who gave her power,shortly after that those kingdoms would fall and the male rulers would die.

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me
5/21/2014 12:35:11 pm

Tariq makes good points, but he can't make up facts. I would like him to make his point and win the argument but he should not make up stuff off the top of his head. Some of his listeners actually read books and I am one of them.

you're a cracker arent you?!
5/21/2014 12:26:31 pm

Bitch are you on a site that somewhat specializes in black ppl being aware trying to 1)give Christopher Columbus props and 2)give the bitch that told him to come over to turtle island and everything he steals he can keep?!He knows better,now take your ass back to amren!

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Um
5/21/2014 01:00:27 pm

Ppl like you have the same tactic every time someone says something that you lack knowledge on.I read books is what you repeat over and over again,well newsflash motherfucker you aren't the only one,still don't make what you said correct.

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Deep
5/22/2014 03:14:06 am

A woman has to sacrifice a portion of her femininity to assume a leadership role because that shit is not natural. Leadership and dominance are masculine qualities. There may have been female rulers in the past but I'm sure they had male advisers.

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Me
5/22/2014 10:54:45 am

You sound like someone from the Taliban.

ACURATL
5/22/2014 12:38:43 pm

You're referring to a time and era where women were held to a higher standard and was morally respected by men of that era. Times change and so have the women. The European system does not speak of the leadership of other women through out the world, where their culture and region are certainly different.

Either way, i do agree with Tariq, case example, the black community. Black female leadership have been happening more than 50 years, or more. It has failed.

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me
5/22/2014 01:26:50 pm

The Black male leadership has failed too.

little Chikago Illinois
5/23/2014 01:50:45 am

We shouldn't compare ourselves to what Europeans do. Or did. It came from Africa anyway.

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NoSimpZone
5/28/2014 02:22:19 pm

He had you, you just don't want to admit it... and what you said about Isabella. That is false because she was basically under Ferdinand. The only reason, she was even in such a high position because the Moorish bloodline ran through her. She converted to Catholicism.

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Russell Bell
6/17/2014 08:51:08 am

Wrong! King Fernidad financed Colombus trip and queen Elizabeth son runs Europe not her and before him it was her husband who ran Europe

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Tariq is slippin
5/21/2014 12:19:52 pm

The first caller was trolling tariq ass and he didn't check her!She was insulting black men,then tariq dumbass took the bate when she told him to just answer the question.I can not believe this,go back and listen to some of his old shows.Tariq has gone soft because he would've checked her hard and that sly insult.

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r
5/22/2014 01:17:15 am

excuse me i wasnt trollin u kno nothing sir i called out of concern for my young brothers not to insult them.
I lived during the upliftment of black talented brothers..... did i hit a nerve because i called out for brothers to be more motivated and not live to be on section 8? You are "trollin" and im sorry if im concerned about my black brothers settling for handouts from the dominant society

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s
5/22/2014 06:51:09 am

lying

Mr. Jon
5/25/2014 12:13:24 pm

Yea,

I was almost certain it was some white woman like Louise calling to talk bad against the black community...

I am surprised that Tariq didn't mention that a majority of welfare recipients are white, but black people get all of the hate for it... even though we are the ones who face discrimination in employment.

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Mackin Stackin
5/28/2014 05:42:40 am

Yea The only one Trolling is you. I am sure your girlfriend looks like nelson mandela.

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Dmac
5/21/2014 01:03:12 pm

Another great show Tariq. Tariq made some good points with the whole aggressive submissiveness. We have too many brothers raised by single mothers who are comfortable with taking on a submissive role in life. We as black men really have to start taking charge because the women will follow our lead. As a dude y from the hood I make it a point to dissociate myself from dumb hood shit. Im in school for engineering and I'm trying to set a good example for other young black men. But as black men we really have to let some black people go and start handling business because like Tariq said we can pour magic water all day but its time to just man up.

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Mac in Minnesota
5/21/2014 02:08:18 pm

Great Game.... Technology will beat man made religion every time....your enemy always has a enemy. The civil rights movement was aggressive passive... The Black Power Movement coming behind it... Gave us respect... But lack of say a 100, 200 year plan on the part of both movements puts us where we are today....rebuilding the history King Flex dropped was heavy man !!! Ethiopia Bob Marley was on to something... Great show

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S Fresh link
5/21/2014 04:22:45 pm

That women that called up was strange. Something was weird about that call.

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Tariq got played
5/21/2014 10:35:29 pm

The woman who called up was White and was lowkey dissing black men. In fact, I believe the caller was really the white woman that Tariq debated weeks ago.

I could be wrong about the identity of the caller, but she definitely played Tariq.

Otherwise, good show

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Bellion
5/22/2014 12:58:12 am

I kind of got that impression myself. Seemed like a caucasian school teacher type with all that "they're so talented but not living up to their potential" talk. And then, of course the whole "I went to panther meetings" which seems to be the popular thing to say these days when everybody knows most people cowered away from the panthers way back then, but now it's cool to claim you were in with them.

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r
5/22/2014 05:06:32 am

People didnt cowar away from the Panthers those meetings were full when dad took me I lived it daily just as FYI My dad would get me dressed and take me yo many many packed full Panther Meetings have you ever been to one? Ive been to many many of them Many!!! And enjoyed every minute of them

Deep
5/22/2014 03:07:13 am

You cant always tell what a person's skin color is by the way they sound on the phone

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r
6/2/2014 03:05:05 am

Thank you or their IQ at times

r
5/22/2014 05:18:46 am

i know what struggles black men face and im hurt that you would even suggest im dissin my people and i am white is an insult to me and i am hurt by your comments but you have a right to your opinion. Our People need to be empowered again and stau that way and stick together thats how my people were when I was growing up. I want this for our people again Empowerment not Section 8 welfare ect ect unless needed not as a chosen way of life!

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Leo
5/21/2014 11:55:53 pm

Is it just me or was that first call kind of suspicious. Why did she keep repeating the same words over and over. I did not here one drop of negro dialect in her voice.Not all black men who get on gov assistance are faking mental illness.You have to examine all of the mental and physical abuse that happens in the black community specifically aimed at black men. This never gets examined because black males are still viewed as subhuman to some degre under white supremacy.Many brothas truly need help or else they will end up on the streets or worst. I do believe there needs to be more programs specifically designed to help black men with mental illness but this like many things will have to be a demand not a want.

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r
5/22/2014 02:05:37 am

Im not white and excuse me brothers my father Did take me to black panthers reguarly! Im stating fact and you may not even been born when dad was exposing me to black empowerment! Im sorry you may have taken my call to Tariq as an insult to you brothers! I just expect great things from you all because I know we are superior! Im just hurt by these comments...

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Phaddi Snaxx
5/22/2014 09:26:24 am

I know you, know your name, know your voice, you from Houston, right? You have called into Tariq's show to talk about SIMILAR issues before "These kids, they treat it like some kinda joke..."
Fellas, she just has that type of fake-sounding voice - yawl know people like that everywhere in every city. It might be how they sound down there, cause my cousins sound the same way. They (my cousins) are fake for real though, not saying "r from Houston" is. Plus they sounded like that before they moved there.

agent Q
5/22/2014 01:00:09 am

Tariq tell them that black famous people money is controlled and I think you know this if some one like LeBron are any other black famous person help black people to much they will be killed.

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Elmer Lee link
5/22/2014 03:07:17 am

Real shit!!!!

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Hors Sfier
5/22/2014 12:30:33 pm

There are some real petty critiques on the board. Tariq's points were still valid irrespective of the alleged troll. He really broke down how single mother households are just disasters for black people, both men and women. Near every black person I have had problems with in life was raised by a single mother. That comment about men who count other men's money gave me flashbacks to some haters. Some black girl screaming independence while on WIC and EBT is straight insane.Their sons grow up the same way. If you pay attention you can tell the blacks who got raised by single mothers without asking them.

I agree that the first caller sounded mad suspect. But black people grow up all over the place in America and not just the hood. I met a black chick the other day who sounded like she stole a white suburban girl's vocal cords...but I digress.

Tariq's point about leaving certain black people behind is true.
Leave the goons, hoodrats, dusty black people behind. That is not harsh. That is survival. We are weighed down by the bastard baby makers and felons they feed and breed.

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rr
6/2/2014 03:02:41 am

No my mom and dad had me when they were 15 and they worked 2 jobs to send me to the best schools on our area where I learned something called phonics ---look it up

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Hors Sfier
5/22/2014 12:34:20 pm

I really dig his comments on blacks and Christianity. Christianity as a religion is truly the opium for black people. Good luck telling a black Christian woman that she is wrong on anything. They stay prayed up! But don't accomplish month.

Great show Tariq!

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Wepnx
8/7/2014 06:52:05 am

I don't think you have ever seen real Christianity. You won't find it in 99.9% of any of the churches in this country nor in Europe. We have a false Christianity and a false image of Christ being worshiped. If you were to meet a real Christian you would know it from him except by his actions or if you asked them. Christianity is from us (black people) to them but we are also it's worst offenders.

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az
5/22/2014 01:22:29 pm

sound like that woman has a mental disability

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r
5/29/2014 01:54:30 pm

No mother fuck infact i have a phd when did u get yours dusty

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Phaddi Snaxx
5/22/2014 01:23:33 pm

Naw, she Black/African-American. Like I said earlier, she called in on previous episodes talking about how kids are not taking life serious - maybe it was about catching STDs. It might have been the goon show a couple of years ago. She just always calls in to the show with an agenda (very few do not after tariq kept blasting on people asking "Whats the topic?", but its not a fake made up one, in my opinion

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r
6/2/2014 02:54:28 am

your a dumb as well as stupid!!! Never called stop being just absolutely stupid!!! Stop making up stuff cause youre bored and trolling you idiot!!! Get your facts straight snd since I called before verify it moisty you doynd like the bitch and dummy that I warn my son about daily not to be like!!! Stop telling false truths proove im white moisty bitch ass!!!
your a disgrace liar!!!

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r
6/2/2014 02:58:12 am

tried to correct spelling as iveas typing it wouldnt let me sorry

Phaddi Snaxx
6/3/2014 10:26:08 am

So another woman named "Ronnie" just happened to call into Tariq's show again? With the exact same type of fake voice, and an out-of-the-blue agenda also? I'm just skeptical. If not the same, sorry for the confusion (I guess)... Sometimes women (and men) call into Tariq's show just to get attention / defuse spousal incidents / put friend that also listens on blast.

Tribe Judah
5/22/2014 03:39:32 pm

This is so off point. The intro music and the weave product commercial bodied the whole show.

Tuned out in 5 minutes

Kick rocks

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Hors Sfier
5/22/2014 08:46:41 pm

You missed out on Great Game because of intro music and one weave commercial? Black people stay missing the bigger picture. I don't recall either one. Eat the fish and leave the bone.

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Mataro
5/22/2014 09:51:33 pm

Thats real take about the Ethiopians. It got so real that Italian Americans were granted passports and visas to go fight for Italy while at the same time African Americans were denied passports and visas to go fight for Ethiopia. Yes people there was a time when we had much more of a sense of community.

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Loon
5/23/2014 10:21:39 am

I was born as a crack baby from a crack whore mother and my father was killed when I was 1 yrs old. I grew up most of my child hood life in foster homes. I lived with a white family for 4 yrs of my childhood life where I saw first hand how they teach their own kids and viewed others. I was placed on medication (Ritalin) along with others meds in which I felt I actually didnt need. I was always told how I wouldn't amount to nothing when I got older etc. As an young teenager in the hood I got in trouble and caught a felony at 18. I remembered everything negative thing a MF said to me. I used that to motivate me and get myself out the hood, but I made a choice. My point is, as an individual you have to want change so bad you are will risk your life on it. I have been listening to Tariq for 5yrs now and has helped me with my confidence, self awareness, and how carry myself as a man. If we had more black men such as Tariq teaching and not preaching or complaining. Then you would have better black men leading in the right direction. I tired of seeing and hearing niggas doing nothing but speculate when you know can contribute. Its repulsive! We got poor uneducated individuals in the hood who dont want nothin but money, hoes, and clothes because that is what is taught as a youngster. So I say stop complaining and do something to educate and eradicate this ignorance. How are people in the hood going find any adequate info if they dont know where to look? Imma end this by saying this, if you are not doing anything to educate or help those in need SHUT THE F*** UP! A lot of these women got more heart than a lot men out here. The reason we are failing as a community is because black men are failing themselves. There is NO excuse or option for failure.

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Loon
5/23/2014 10:24:59 am

Please excuse the grammar. I obviously didn't proof read. Lol

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Antoine
5/23/2014 07:35:46 pm

LOL the parting word of advice HAHAHAAAA HAAA!!!

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Only-1-Destiny link
5/31/2014 01:57:09 pm

In reference to today, this idea of masculinity and femininity and the gender roles assigned to each are the central issue behind the aggressive submissiveness in men and the psychology behind "dykes" or women who act like men. Men don't know how to be men. Women are forced to be men. I will say, it's been the toughest challenge as a woman being raised by independent women to step back and let my man be "a man" meaning to protect, provide, and to ride with him through his mistakes and help him stay focused but let him figure it out. He needs that. And he struggles to understand my need to be treated like a woman, like a queen and not some girl or "one of the boys." I need that. BUT also, he needs emotional release and I get a little rough that's okay, too. It's all about balance and progress.

The problem is we don't have any PATIENCE to make it work. "I on need no nigga", "Fuck these bitches" I hear this all the time. But what I don't hear is anyone saying, "yes, my upbringing was messed up and so was yours. We both want to be better and do better. Help me and I'm going to help you. No matter what. We are in this together." NOPPPE. Everything is someone else's fault because we're perfect....NO. Work on yourself. STICK IT OUT. And come to an understanding. The right one will push you to blossom into a better you than you've ever known. The black community is DESPERATE for the reestablishment of the family.

Overall, we have to stop being ill-tempered and hotheaded. STAY off of the phone with your friends RUNNING your mouth!! Do something with your lover. Meditate. Exercise. Watch a comedy. JUST CHILL and communicate. Check yourself and learn constructive criticism. Get out of your feelings and handle your business, love will be there, but what about your empire? Work hard, play hard, and grow together. THEN have children. Teach them this unity.

We gotta reverse the curse.


O1D

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Kelso
6/29/2014 04:10:33 pm

Tariq's statement about societies being led by female rulers as being in decline was exceptionally dumb. Elizabeth I remains one of the greatest leaders of all time, as does Catherine the Great (Russia). How would he account for male leaders who hurt their nations or empires? Too much estrogen in their systems? Very ignorant.

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