At this point in time,accept very little. Too many women,especially sisters,unfortunately ,have been corrupted by this bullshit society. From my own experience, don't be too emotional as a man. Take it for what it is worth with these new age females.
"She got ten kids... but did you see that azz?! Those ten kids need a father!" roflmao
turn the music down!!
Light topic and heavy game. My homie and I were discussing this issue the other day: setting a standard for which women to entertain. There is no sense in encouraging counter-productive behavior for this generation or the next generation.
Unfortunately, too many women in our generation had zero concept of action and consequence. And now we see the results. For men, when we make bad decisions we end up with outstanding warrants, in jail or dead. For women, they can kind of coast for a while on sympathy(crying helps), financial subsidies and the black church as a cheerleader(just pray on it).
A few of my rules are: no kids, no tattoos and no fake hair. For me to even consider making an exception, the woman has to balance it out. But there are so many low grade women with a sense of entitlement that even the concept of balancing does not exist. So yeah, it is a mess.
For goodness sake don't make it sound so hopeless and PLEASE don't go and get a white woman!!! I don't know your age group but you can find black women meeting your expectations in the church, campaign offices, college campuses, minority professional organizations, alumni activities, etc. Keep on looking; she's out there!
You are correct They ARE out there. And I take full responsibility for finding an on point black wife. A white woman as a wife is not for me. I have relatives married to whites. More power to them. But the nonsense and stress they deal with is not for me. I want a black family.
Tariq did a podcast on the herbal tea sipping, black hippie chicks. He also did one on the ratchet black church girl. I have dodged metaphorical bullets and train wrecks dealing with both groups. So sifting through the fakes is real work.
But my friends and I were discussing upping our game to where we attract the A+ black woman who is thorough inside and outside. My area is pretty cosmopolitan so we have black women from all over. Once I understood the real and the fake, I put in stricter criteria for acceptable behavior. As everyone should.
So no, I am definitely not abandoning the black woman. We are in this together. One way or another.
Honestly, I'm not going to put up with this race exclusivity bullshit. I'll take love wherever I can get it, and if it's from a white woman then so be it. I'm really sick of the hatred coming from a lot of, mainly white and nonblack, people but there are some understanding people out there, you just have to find them. Being part of the Kemetic spirit system, I tend to lean towards black women but I'd need a pure African or Brazilian. I don't have time to put up with headcases or random drama. I understand the ramifications down the line for dating out as well but honestly why should I live to please other people or "be black enough." That crap has been coming from other black people my entire life. It's sad that lots of ignorant people associate black with ignorance. Honestly, I'll just do whatever makes me happy.
I get sick of people pressuring certain types of relationships. Like what business is it of yours who I love.
Umar Johnson tried that and he ended up getting busted by a sista and a stripper so there's no real advantage to it and nearly all people are hypocrites.
People just need to mind their business and leave other people's personal life alone. Only person who knows what's best for your life is you.
No kids, no tattoos, no fake hair? Good luck! I know plenty women of substance and integrity with all three of the above however they are not the norm on today's society. Hopefully people who think like you are making those judgements and decisions after a thorough evaluation of the situation.
"I know plenty women of substance and integrity with all three of the above however they are not the norm on today's society."
You said it yourself. And your statement echoes my sentiments pretty closely. Good luck is right. Actually, a lot of men think the way I do, especially with respect to children. The fake hair thing relates to lack of hygiene in the real hair and scalp. And the tattoos reference certain tendencies that black men who are trying to make it can't accommodate.
I hope every woman finds her soulmate but I can have my standards as a sentient being, same as everyone else. No woman has to accept me. And vice versa.
Black day laborers in Los Angeles?
Probably, the character "Cutty" on "The Wire" was a day laborer, and he was "Black/African-American"
I don't see a lot of brothers standing in front of Home Depot here in L.A., and $80 to get your house built sounds like exploitation, but thanks for the reply: maybe Brother Tariq knows a spot where our people hang out, and maybe he was halfway joking about that low amount. I'd prefer to hear that he's using a small Black-owned business that hires Black construction workers who earn a fair living wage, but I guess I really shouldn't be spending his money for him.
It's good that he got back to the game for a while. This show was a good balance between addressing our social issues like cobsy, the flag and spitting game. In other news, what was the background music? That track is fire.
I much prefer the show when he is in a good mood and not cursing out callers. Good show, this was hilarious!
On Bill Cosby:
I'm glad Tariq brought this to my attention, I was close to finally jumping on the anti-Cosby bandwagon... (Not publicly of course; I never jump on an anti-black guy lynch mob... even for Kony).
What pisses me off is how afterwards everyone was like:
"SEE, TOLDJA SO, WHERE ARE HIS DEFENDERS NOW?!"
I'm like... "Are you actually trying to shame us for waiting for all the facts before condemning the man?" Is that supposed to be a bad thing?
But with our punitive, irrational, society, anyone who says "let's wait for the facts" is somehow deemed sexist, anti-woman, pro-rape etc... Feminists are the Queens of guilt tripping people and strawman fallacies.
These people would STILL lynch a black guy without a fair trial if a random white girl claimed she was raped by him.
Not much has changed, and feminism is another form of white supremacy.
And to think... These are the type of people who sit on our juries... People who are moved by emotion and so quick to convict.
What you conveyed in your post might have been relevant had I addressed you but since you felt the need to respond to my post, let me assure you that I don't feign interest in the lives of negropeans such as yourself. I could give a rat's a$$ who negropeans choose for partners; I just know who you are and so does everybody else.
The trolls, attention seekers and energy deflectors stay deep in these posts.
My man Tariq on point again! Serious discussion and some laughs!
Damn that's fucked up lol.
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