In this episode Tariq talks about rules.
9/9/2015 05:22:47 pm
Lmao. Based on recent comments, Ennis and Sotomayor picked up their marriage certificate from Kentucky.
9/11/2015 03:33:02 am
9/12/2015 08:40:45 pm
9/10/2015 06:27:37 am
Tariq I absolutely appreciate your sound advice to the married guy about being stable, not competing with his wife, and also encouraging him to continue to BUILD with his wife! Sentiments like these are important for us in order to foster healthy relationships in the Black family :)
9/10/2015 07:18:32 am
I get what you are saying but wait until she starts clowning him for making less money. Realistically, women only respect men who are beyond them at a certain level. If she is the main breadwinner and he has no means of elevation, how long will her respect for him last?
9/10/2015 08:06:45 am
I disagree with that because a marriage is supposed to be a partnership, where both people carry each other at some point. Whether it be financially, spiritually, physically,etc. Remember what you said about the woman supporting her man "if she is worth anything" and being "ride or die"...that same principal applies to a woman who continues to hold the fort down and respect her husband while he strives to better himself, regardless of the amount of money he makes. A woman who can't do that is not ready for marriage. Each wife that I know (grandmothers, mom, sister, aunts, friends) have all had a time in their marriage where they had to carry some of the weight. Of course (since the men in m family believe in providing) these periods didn't last too long, but they did experience them. The reality is that there are way too many black men and women who often buy into the materialistic paradigm of "love/marriage" , and they forget or disregard the work and effort it takes to build TOGETHER. The most successful marriages are accomplished by BOTH parties stepping in and nurturing the union while helping their spouses become their best selves.
9/10/2015 05:39:15 pm
100% agree with you on this one. Generally I with what Tariq says but i simply can't cosign this. A woman should never be the center of your life, only an accessoire i.e. she can come along for the the ride but never in the drivers seat. Family life has definitely changed you Tariq. This advise is something you would never have given in your mack lessons days.
9/10/2015 06:35:31 pm
9/16/2015 11:13:04 am
Right on, Hors! Money is the most common issue/reason for divorces followed by infidelity. Furthermore, I would not want to be the object of his resentment which will most certainly follow, maybe not now but surely in the future. He's a fool, if he let's this opportunity slip by cause guess what? If she had that opportunity, bet money, she'd take it!
9/10/2015 02:35:51 pm
Well here's a little story i got to tell about one bad brother i knew so well some dude's kidnapped his wife and held her for a 50,000 ransom he paid up, i don't think she would have done the same for him.The caller has to be on some hustlein shit till he finish the school.no drank no smoke he should go. bru should be well trained by now.last point these dam schools i threw my children to the wolfs your going to use that tool between your shoulders one day.there aint no competition.mom and dad not going to be around always.
9/15/2015 01:31:12 am
This Horse guy spends too much time on here. I can tell he doesn't have a stable relationship with a woman.
9/16/2015 01:24:31 pm
9/17/2015 03:22:09 pm
How long were they together before he married? No offense, but she sounds like a cold bitch! Sure, most women want security and it makes them respect a man more, but a woman should STILL support her man when he's at his lowest.
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